Soul Midwife

Tender Loving Care for a dying person

 

What is a ​Soul Midwife?

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" A compassionate, non-medical, holistic end of life companion"

 

A soul midwife guides and supports someone (our 'friend') on their approach to the end of life through to their death.

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There is often still an enormous fear to speak about the "death" word due to fear and lack of understanding. We live in a society which finds it difficult to have conversations about death and dying as it can be challenging and emotional however, not talking about it can feel quite overwhelming for the dying person. Talking about dying does not make it happen any faster. There are lots of organisations offering support but we do not know they are there. Fear is overcome by understanding which gives back a sense of control.

 

​When we talk about dying in a warm and comforting way, it can alleviate fears.

It is beneficial to open up conversations with 'our friend' to be able to understand their feelings and wishes in what they want or do not want.  We listen to their choices and support in making them become more accessible.

 

Talking about death strengthens the relationships of everyone involved such as family, friends, caregivers, healthcare providers, hospices, care homes and hospitals. 

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What does a soul midwife do?

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A soul midwife works to remove the fear of isolation. We are companions from the pre-active stages of dying through to death and beyond as we keep ‘our friend’ company when they feel frightened and alone. Just being present is the greatest gift.​​

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We are a spiritual companion when life can feel like a wave of ebb and flow of challenges.  We are a valuable support in a non-medical, non religious, spiritual and holistic way for 'our friend' and their family and/or carers.

 

We guide ‘our friend’ through their end-of-life journey to a dignified and peaceful death.  We work with anybody regardless of their age, faith, gender or sexuality and in honour of their beliefs. You do not need to be referred to a soul midwife. 

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The stages of dying are unique to each person but there are some shared characteristics. The core of our work comes from a deep understanding of our friend through listening and companionship.

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We do not fix or rescue but offer support with simple, gentle techniques and compassion though tender loving care so that our friend feels safe, loved and comforted. Our 'friend' determines the pace and we meet them where they are. We each bring our own skills to assist and some of us are experienced holistic therapists who can provide gentle therapies such as reiki . Reiki is non obtrusive and can help to bring a state of calm and peace when life feels out of control and in chaos.

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Letting go is a large part of the transition as we gently and skilfully hold the space and follow the inspiring stages in the process of dying.  We are a midwife for the passage to death. 

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Individual Soul Midwife Companionship

Please contact me about individual holistic comfort, care and support for yourself or a loved one.

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Learn how to support someone on their journey towards the end of life using TLC : Tender Loving Care skills

This is a simplified version of Soul Midwifery.

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What is TLC?

TLC is for anyone and everyone, from families to professionals.

It is a practical and loving support program which has been put together as a 'caring toolbox' for individuals, families and support workers to bring confidence when caring for someone who is near or at the end of life.

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TLC Days for Individuals (Tender Loving Care) : £99 

As a TLC trainer certified with Felicity Warner (Soul Midwife founder),  the 'Tender Loving Care' Training program is designed for individuals or families who may be supporting a dying relative.

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What will you learn?

 

• How to use simple practical skills to support physical and emotional needs.

• Recognising the Four Stages of Dying

• Creating a Loving Space

• Deep Listening

• Gentle Touch

• Vigiling at the bedside

 

 

Professional Groups

Focusing on comfort, dignity, and spiritual well-being in mainstream settings. This workshop teaches simple, hands-on techniques, including understanding the dying process and holistic care, to reduce fear and bring love and peace to the end-of-life journey. 

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Suitable for groups in hospices, hospitals, care homes, and community organisations.​

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